Hello everybody,
well first of all want to wish everybody happy new year and christmas and ask for help ( i am sure i will not get any help, but i will try)
I am 22, I work at fast food restaurant and make enough to pay the bills and eat, buy a few things on the side for my cats and do christmas shoping, I do not have medical insurance, also I have a loan that I am paying every months, so basically i can not afford an insurance right now, about 2 months ago doctors told me that I have PRE-CERVICAL cancer, its not a cancer yet but if I dont get a surgery right away than cancer will come for sure,I am at the second stage of that problem. The surgery I need is called loop surgery, i already find out that it will cost $5000, half of which MUST be in cash before the surgery in doctor’s hands, and other half i have to pay after,
The sad thing that I can not afford it and I dont have insurance, even if I get insurance( I find out that they wont pay for it because I was already diagnosed with pre-cancer before I will have insurance). I asked people for help, I asked at work, I asked online, I asked Cancer Society, nobody has called me back. The answer I was hearing is —how can we give you free money if we dont know you.
I dont live with my parents, so my mom cant help me, she doesnt make much money either, and the bank wont give a big loan, because I already have one.( i am paying for it monthly) RIght now is December……coming january i need to have that surgery, doctors told me on the phone that its very serious…..and what can I tell her —-i dont have enough money, i will call you back later?—exactly what i said…..god…it sucks so much….i know i got to have that operation to remove the bad cells, but where am I suppost to find money? I really tried to look for sponsor….but then it was ringing in my head—Sweetie look at the world, everybody are for themselves now, if you dont have insurance or if you are not rich…you are f….basically.I been dipresed since I find out I have this…..I cry more often now laying in bed and thinking that if I dont do something the cancer will come, and who knows what will happend, my health right now been not good anyway, O work alone, dont sleep much, not eat right, i think alot about death now…because some woman die from cervical cancer, i also feel sad that later I may not have kids, and I always wanted a big family….in the future….right now I am thinking who would give me $5000….most likely answer is..nobody. Even raised my hope one time buying lottery ticket and winning big cash money, so I can be healthy and happy. So I can be myself again. This eats me emotionally everyday.
So if you know how I can find a sponsor or anybody who can help me finacialy please????
I really need this more than anything right now.
Your story really touched me, as it will to everyone that reads it. During these holidays there are some radio stations locally that answers letters of need like this one is. Somebody writes in about a need and they answer the need "over the air."
Last night, a mother lost her daughter, they had nothing, no food, shelter, or gifts. The grandmother wrote in and her story was told on the radio. They gave her $1,000.
If it were me, I would contact a local TV or Radio station to let them know about your situation. There are plenty out there just dying to make a donation to a great cause like yours is. But they do not know your story. You will not reach them in this forum. It is unlikely. But you may get an idea on how to go about fulfilling this need.
This much pressure should not be in anyone’s life, but sadly it is what a lot of people face everyday. Wherever you live, see if a local TV station or Radio Station is having a "Wish come True" program that they are sponsoring. It is worth a try.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If you said the American Cancer Society won’t help, I would ask for somebody to be an advocate for you. I would also try to see if there is a church that you can go to that "Knows you or your family".
I said a prayer as I took time out to write a response to your question that somehow, someway…you get the funds that you need to get the surgery you need to survive.
God Bless and Care For You.
Dave
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